It's
hard to feel for people who are some combination of wealthy, famous
and attractive. This because they lead lives we imagine to be far superior to our
own, immune from the problems the rest of us struggle with every
day.
For instance, rush hour can't possibly be the enervating ordeal for LeBron James or Jennifer
Lawrence or Jeff Bezos that it is for you and I, right?
Wrong.
While fame and fortune can certainly cushion one from life's harsher realities, it doesn't ensure that it will be a blissful and serene float down the river of dreams. For proof, we need only look at Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain. Neither were sweating Republican threats to slash Social Security and Medicare. Yet both were so drastically unhappy they took their own lives.
While fame and fortune can certainly cushion one from life's harsher realities, it doesn't ensure that it will be a blissful and serene float down the river of dreams. For proof, we need only look at Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain. Neither were sweating Republican threats to slash Social Security and Medicare. Yet both were so drastically unhappy they took their own lives.
But there is another, more inspiring example: Kevin White.
Unless
you're a fan of the Chicago Bears, you probably have no idea who
Kevin White is. He is a wide receiver from the University of West
Virginia and was the seventh player selected in the 2015 NFL draft.
To
put that in perspective, of the thousands and thousands of young men
playing collegiate football at that time, just six (six!) were
thought to be better NFL prospects to the folk who earned their livelihoods appraising them than Kevin White.
Pretty
heady stuff. And an apparent head start on a rewarding, fulfilling
life.
But
three years removed from the glorious spring evening on which he was
drafted, White has played in just five games. Caught just twenty-one
passes. He has yet to score an officially-sanctioned NFL touchdown.
They're
not the kind of numbers number-seven picks are supposed to put up.
But
there are reasons for that. First there was the stress fracture in
his very first training camp which effectively ended his rookie
season. Then, four games into his second year a broken ankle ended
it. And in game number-one of his third, the star-crossed receiver
incurred a season-ending clavicle fracture.
Sports
columnists and the general public have thoughtfully provided insult to
these injuries.
White
has been declared a wasted draft pick. His team's most overpaid
player. And much, much worse. He has been cruelly derided for his lack of
production as if he chose these injuries over playing the game that has been his passion since childhood.
I
don't know White, but I'm reasonably sure the last three years have
been torment. Imagine possessing the talent to play NFL football and
after being fitted for a uniform and signing a great, big contract,
being denied by a series of injuries for which the word 'freakish'
barely suffices.
Kindly
note these injuries happened despite the status that is accorded
those whose names appear on NFL rosters. Kindly note his body was
ravaged despite a guaranteed contract worth more money than I (and
perhaps you) have made in forty-four years of wage-slavery.
Kindly note that despite the passion and the work and the time devoted to it, his dream has only intermittently appeared, drifting in and out like a radio station with a weak signal.
But
even after that dream began to curdle like spoiled milk White did not
give up. Even after his notoriety became a two-edged sword and his
income an albatross White persevered. He has responded to each
and every injury by rehabbing himself into game shape with an
unswerving and profound relentlessness.
If
I'm Bears' GM Ryan Pace, that is precisely the type of personality I want challenging
psychotic dudes called linebackers who take powerful exception to footballs
being caught in their midst.
White
is not a wasted draft pick. White is not a malingerer. White is not
(to quote the most-offensive fan comment) a pussy.
White
is a role-model.
Despite
his modest accomplishments on NFL gridirons, White is an All-Pro
insofar as The Square Peg is concerned. And we will risk a
hernia pulling for him in 2018.
The
best of luck to you, Sir.
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